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My partner Yoko Sumii and I will do our first Shibari performance together at Extasia in Basel next weekend (28-29.11.). We are already very excited how it will be and are this week still intensively rehearsing.

If you want to watch us, we’ll be on the main stage on Saturday at 5:30pm and maybe a second time on Sunday at 3pm.

Addendum: It all went well, although a little more experience certainly can’t hurt me, and I’m already looking forward to the next time!

By the way, this was also a nice example of “Engi” on the part of Yoko, if you’re interested in the theory behind the performances… and here’s another report on Extasia as a whole.

It certainly won’t be our last Shibari performance!

In 2016 we were again at Extasia, but this time only on Saturday and not on both days. The Extasia took place from December 2 to 12, Friday to Sunday. Star guest this time were Micaela Schäfer and also Lena Nitro was again part of the party.

The Extasia the year was unfortunately not quite as nice as in previous years. Previously, it was always in the ice hockey stadium, on thick rubber mats directly on the ice. That made for cold feet for several hours, but the location was bigger than this time in the exhibition hall. A lot of booths were accordingly no longer represented there and there also seemed to be fewer visitors than in previous years.

After we had already performed successfully at the Porny Days at the end of November, the greatest pressure had naturally already given way to a certain routine, so that we could concentrate more on the joy of the performance.

Yoko and I were nevertheless excited, because unlike the previous year, this time we had the time slot in the evening at 9 pm. Primetime, so to speak, and only our second joint performance, or rather the second joint choreography.

Also this year the stage held some surprises. As usual, there was a smaller structure on the stage, on which the red interview sofa stood. This structure provided a step that was about 50cm high… and exactly above this edge was the hanging point! Shocked, Jack the Rigger got to work and in cooperation with the organizer, a stage element was fitted with matching feet literally overnight from Thursday to Friday.

Without this we would not have been able to perform, because otherwise the people who were tied up would have had to work permanently with one leg over the abyss and the suspended models would have been lowered back down to the ground directly over the edge. Unfortunately, this was really not well prepared, which was also due to the fact that the organizer was not really clear what our performances would look like.

For the second time we had Elena with us to photograph our show. Her second assignment at the edge of the stage, surrounded by all the professional photographers (and those who think they are). At the beginning, the others were still magnanimous and let her have a comfortable place right in front with the hint that they would anyway photograph “rather other things” than what was to be expected from a bondage perfo. The performance went well, much better and looser than in 2015.

Back then, Yoko had to keep hissing to me in the middle of it, what comes next now, because I was so nervous that I somehow could not keep part of the flow right. But with the extra experience behind me, this time it really went with a lot of commitment and passion.

But as soon as Yoko and I got going, the generosity was quickly over and Elena had to keep the camera steady despite bumping elbows and pushing snaps. Well, it looks like we have met the taste of the majority. Well, that’s not surprising, Yoko is a gifted performer and you can always count on her to captivate the crowd.

In general, I found the experience completely different, standing on the big stage. It was satisfying and stimulating, not just a “sporting” challenge, but real shibari. The difference to the more intimate sessions in the Juku was of course there and clearly noticeable, but it was simply a shift in emphasis, not something qualitatively completely different.

In this respect we are looking forward to the next opportunity to show our Shibari to an interested group!

In August we had Steve as our guest for the first time. After Yoko and I had been working towards this for almost two years, the time had finally come for Steve to visit us in Switzerland and finally bring the famous Osada workshops directly to us.

At the Juku we were able to accommodate him and this is also where the one-on-one lessons took place. Yoko and I supported the lessons by taking photos for the learners and videos if requested, so that the learners and their models could fully concentrate on the lessons.

In terms of content, the focus was on the interaction between the captivator and the model. Subtlety, restraint and the understanding of his counterpart were the important contents. Mostly they were tied on the floor, with only two to three ropes, and numerous techniques were inspired by Yukimura-ryû.

It was a great honor for me not only to have Steve with us for so long, but also to witness how the learners engaged in these challenges full of curiosity and openness.

Osada workshops are a great opportunity to get familiar with the style in a small group. In addition, ide group dynamics play a big role in these workshops, so that the experience is even more intense.

It also allows us to give access to Osada-Ryû to more people than if we only organize individual lessons.

In addition to the individual lessons, we also had the workshops, of course. We were able to offer two one-day workshops and one two-day workshop, so that there were enough opportunities for our Swiss friends and acquaintances as well as for our friends abroad to learn from Steve.

In addition to the workshops at the Juku, Steve also taught two day workshops at Secret56 on a third weekend. We have been close friends with the makers of the Secret for a long time, and when we had the confirmation in early 2018 that Steve would come, we of course immediately sought contact. By networking, we were able to offer an even larger group the opportunity to learn directly from Steve without having to go to Japan.

The workshops at Secret were designed for larger groups than at Juku, so that during the two days, in addition to Yoko and myself, Vinciens and Kenyade from Vienna were invited as co-instructors. In this way we were able to maintain the high quality of care and ensure that all participants were ideally looked after.

We all learned a lot in these three, almost four, very intense weeks. It was the biggest project of the Juku so far, and even if we had to improvise a little here and there, everything went very well. In any case, we are already excited about what the still young year 2019 will bring us!

In July 2018, I gave the first Yukimura workshop of my career. And that still abroad, in the far north of Europe! How it came about and what happened there

In spring 2018 we met Nagor from Finland at Studio SIX. We were immediately sympathetic, and the intensive, joint work in the main dôjô of Osada-Ryû quickly brought us even closer together. Since then, we have been in regular contact.

During one of his visits to Juku in 2018, the idea came up to organize a Yukimura workshop in Helsinki. The shibari scene there is small but dedicated and dynamic, and Nagor plays an important role in the organization. As an organizer, teacher and contact person, he is doing pioneering work and is still an outstanding performer and teacher.

Preparation of the workshops

While Nagor and his Shibari partner Feline started to advertise in the community and to put together a group of participants, I developed a workshop program. On the one hand I wanted to teach essential basic elements of Yukimura-Ryû, but on the other hand I wanted to leave enough room for the participants to make the techniques their own.

I then coordinated the program with Nagor again, and off we went. All in all, we were practicing for seven hours (!) on a Sunday in Helsinki at the old Club X. It was an exciting experience to see how differently the individual couples handled the techniques. The essential aspects were quickly internalized by all, which was facilitated by the fact that Nagor and Feline supported me excellently.

Originally, the workshop was designed for five couples, but because the demand was so great (and Nagor and Feline assured me that they knew the group well and they would support me) we ended up with seven couples on site. Wow!

What we learned

Club X isn’t really designed for larger shibari events, so we had to improvise a few hanging points, but in the end we had enough room for everyone.

Yukimura-Ryû we also immediately began with the first practical exercises. I was impressed by the seriousness and conscientiousness with which the participants dealt with the techniques.

The dynamics were incredible and what started as a practical exercise quickly developed a momentum of its own and after a short time you could already see how the new learning content and the participants’ own experience and knowledge complemented each other.

It was a wonderful experience and I hope to be back in Helsinki very soon!

In September, Osada Steve visited us in Switzerland. In workshops and private lessons, some new techniques were taught and existing knowledge was deepened. These Osada workshops were really special and we are especially proud to have done this twice in a row.

First of all, we would like to thank all the participants. It was great to work with you. Above all, it was great to see how you experimented with the techniques. Much of what was discussed was primarily a question of correct application.

The range of experience that you brought with you was quite wide, so it was not always easy to maintain the pace within the group. This is one of the reasons why we like to work with smaller groups, so that there is always a contact person available to help. We hope that we were able to implement this accordingly.

The main focus was on communication with the other person, which is always a particular challenge when the pattern becomes more complex or even goes into suspension. It is exciting every time to see how the individual couples approach the exercises with their own experiences and goals, and what comes out of it when that combines with each other.

Content of the Osada-Workshops

What did we actually do during the workshops and what was the idea behind it? Basically, there were two blocks in the workshops. The first 3 hours we spent with floor techniques.

Floor techniques

One part of the floor techniques were intensive greeting-shibari-patterns. These help to understand the mood of the partner as well as the way your partner communicates. In this way, you tune into each other, like two instruments that have to be brought to the same pitch. In addition, the flexibility of the partner as well as one’s own dexterity are trained. The smooth transition between the individual forms also allows for a gentle start to the Shibari encounter, so that one can better leave everyday life behind.

Another trend that has been making its way from Japan to the West for some time now is the use of pulleys. Pulleys allow to prepare complex patterns already completely, and then to bring the body gently into the air with reduced effort. A classic example would be the Ebi-zuri, but this is also an interesting variation in many other moments. Especially if at the beginning of the encounter no suspension was planned, but a stable pattern develops, a suspension can be realized spontaneously.

For the first time, I managed to intimately connect with my partner. That was something I have been struggling with for quite some time.

G., Teilnehmer im Workshop vom 14.09. 2019

Thanks for these wonderful days!

We have received a lot of positive feedback and we are very happy that we were able to provide our participants with a good time and many exciting new experiences. The courses were international, with participants from Germany, Switzerland, the USA, Finland and Poland, all in the course of just over two weeks!

It was an intense time with little sleep and many hours of inspiration that we will remember for a long time. Many thanks to all of you, with your energy, commitment and drive you made these days special. Without you it would not have been possible to hold these great events and we look forward to seeing you again soon!

Shibari is art… or at least it can be. Sometimes Shibari is also in the service of art, like now in June 2021, when I was asked to help out with a shooting for a bachelor thesis at the Lucerne School of Art and Design.

For the bachelor thesis a person in a green morphsuit should be tied up in front of a green screen and photographed. Well… green in green, without facial expression, the body completely covered? I was skeptical at first, but after exchanging a few messages with the artist, I was convinced.

There are many possible associations invoked. A human being becomes a figure without identity through the suit. Gender, age, religion, ethnicity, all this becomes invisible and disappears.

The figure is also a projection surface and the gaze of the audience fills this void. The figure is tied up, thus doubly at the mercy of the audience… but at the same time it has actively placed itself in this position.

An interesting game between visibility and invisibility, helplessness and subjectivity. A great experience and I am very glad that I could be part of it!

I get asked all the time what actually makes up each shibari style or how they differ. The answer to this is not always simple or easy to give, but when I was talking to my Ukete about this very thing the other day, she said it so beautifully that I asked her to write it down.

Osada-Ryû is certainly one of the most famous styles, and Yukimura-Ryû has also found its home in Harukumo-Juku.

The following texts are exactly as she sent them to me and I would like to make them available to you as well with her permission. My understanding of the Shibari styles has greatly expanded through this conversation.

Yukimura-Ryû

This type of bondage is a great challenge for me and represents submission. The interaction is often reduced to a minimum and the signals that come from you to me are subtle. When I close my eyes, I often feel completely alone. Because you leave me alone in my head. I have to endure the “silence” and pay attention to every little thing. And every time I have to decide for myself whether I wait or not. Whether I try something or not. Each instruction I do receive from you feels like a release. A salvation that you control, and like one dying of thirst I receive it. You are the center of what happens, or doesn’t happen.

It becomes very difficult when you force me to turn away from you. I can’t see you, I can’t feel you, and when I try to turn my face towards you, you push it away with your foot. Yukimura-ryû hurts in the soul, not physically. The emotions take place in my head. And you, as my Bakushi, know that. Why else the comforting words and gestures? When you start touching me again and our interaction finally increases, it is overwhelming and characterized by a very special kind of pleasure. I am at a loss to finding suitable words to describe my feelings in these moments.

Because this way of tieing is so intimate, it feels all the more revealing when you push my top down and everyone can see it. Especially when I’m only wearing a handcuff. I could get up and walk away. But I don’t. There would almost always be enough room to turn away. The shame is not in being exposed, but in giving up. Somehow, one allows it to happen. It’s a voluntary submission and everyone can see it. In retrospect, this is often difficult for me to accept. Sure, you would stop or sanction me, if I left my assigned space. But I haven’t thought that far in this moment for a long time.

Osada-Ryû

This way of tying represents devotion for me. It becomes quiet in my mind. It is like a release. It is the compression, the helplessness and the pain. All that takes the place in the head where otherwise the thoughts are.

They are anchor points on which I can concentrate so strongly until everything around me disappears. The others in the room no longer exist. Only this situation and these feelings that you then trigger.

It’s liberating because I haven’t had the responsibility for a long time. I can let it happen. This also means that I can allow the desire and the passion. No matter who else is present. Boundaries no longer seem to exist. It’s like a rush that hits me completely unexpectedly and I absolutely don’t understand where that comes from. It is no less intimate than Yukimura-Ryû. But I can find safety in the ropes and in helplessness. You don’t submit, you are submitted. For me personally, it’s much easier.

Und es geht weiter… am kommenden Sonntag, 21. Februar, ist der Online-Kurs mit Osada Steve. Er wird den Yokozuri zeigen, eine der klassischen Suspensionen im Shibari und im Osada-Ryû.

Der Yokozuri ist eine der Suspensionen, die wir alle am zuerst lernen. Ich habe sie 2006 oder 2007 glaube ich das erste Mal gemacht. Der Vorteil ist, dass bis zum Abheben immer ein Fuss auf der Erde bleibt. So lässt sich leicht testen, ob das Oberkörper-Muster stabil ist und ob Ukete sich wohl fühlt.

Trotzdem erlaubt der Yokozuri viele verschiedene Posen und Bilder, so dass eine grosse Flexibilität entsteht. Ausserdem sind von dort aus verschiedene Progressionen möglich, so dass eine grosse Vielfalt und Abwechslungsreichtum möglich sind.

Eingeleitet wird der Kurs mit einem Interview von mir, das ich mit Shibari Bremen führen werde. Er betreibt das Osada-Dojo in Bremen und ist ein reger Vertreter dieser Shibari-Schule.